A WORKSHOP TO EMPOWER WOMEN
Most of us aren’t aware of the shame that sits in our bodies, nor do we know how to heal it. We say socially-acceptable things like … “I feel embarrassed, confused, overwhelmed, unsure, stupid, silly, upset, hurt …,” but this only serves to temporarily soothe the uncomfortable feeling, not tangibly change it.
Our hearts know the deep ache of not feeling good enough, not belonging, not being understood, not being seen, not being loved, not being free. Of somehow feeling wrong. The worst part? The shame in our bodies has become so “normal”, we think there’s no other way, and the cycle continues.
Shame exists in the areas of our lives where we’re most vulnerable. It could be that:
- Your business is going incredibly well, and yet you feel lonely and ashamed because you don’t have a life partner.
- You keep picking the wrong partner, taking less than you desire, never seeming to learn, and you end up hurt and alone.
- You have a terrific family but you’ve lost yourself in being the wonderful wife and caring mother. You no longer know who you are or what you wish for outside of their lives.
- You’ve put everything on the line to pursue your creative passion, but it’s just not getting off the ground. Self-doubt is seeping in.
- You’ve taken care of your health all your life, but your chronic health issues simply will not go away.
- You’ve done everything right, you’ve followed the plan with your career, friends, partnership and financial choices, yet that deep hole still exists, an emptiness. You’re sure you’re failing somehow.
Shame itself isn’t the problem. Our relationship with it is.
We don’t want to acknowledge our shame. We don’t want to name it or feel it. We try to avoid it. Deny it. Keep it a secret. Or we bypass it through yoga, affirmations, carefully-laid plans or a constant re-arranging of our lives to try to feel good.
When you constantly push the shame down, it creeps into other areas of your life. The feeling of “being wrong”, “not being good enough” or “not lovable enough” spreads . You start to doubt yourself in areas you were once confident. You start to question who you are. Your values. Your decisions. Your self worth. It can become an endless spiral that keeps you spinning for days, months or even years on end.
Here’s the tricky part:
Your relationship to shame is often what stops you from having what you want. When you’re ashamed of your shame, and you contract your body around it, keeping it hidden and frozen inside of you, you diminish yourself and repel away what you most desire.
The only way we can shift shame is by recognizing it, feeling it and letting it move through our bodies. (Take a moment to breathe and read that sentence again).
We can’t control the intensity of it, how it wants to move through us, or when it shows up, but we can learn to be with it (even if it’s just for a few seconds). To breathe, stop hiding or pushing it down and let it be a part of us. When we allow this to happen, shame moves and our relationship with it changes.
The Shifting Shame, Releasing Fear Workshop is a safe space for you to explore and shift your shame through movement, breath, discussion and body-centered exercises. You’ll learn to:
- Recognize how you react to shame in your body – what situations in life trigger it, where you tense your muscles, how you breathe, what the feelings and sensations are that you’re trying to control, where your mind goes, how you behave in those moments where shame is triggered.
- Un-do this reaction, as you wish, and let all the energy that you previously invested in being afraid of and hiding your shame, be set free to simply move through you.
If you’re tired of talking about it or trying to work through it on your own, and you have a deep, growing desire to move beyond shame into a life with freedom, contentment and an intimate connection to yourself, this workshop is for you. We’ll explore:
- Body image and cultural / social expectations
- Rejection, failure, making mistakes
- The chronic feeling that something is wrong with you or you don’t belong
- Anxiety, overwhelm and guilt
- Jealousy and comparison amongst women
- Silently held opinions you hold of yourself
- Criticism and judgment from others
- Finding internal space for forgiveness and self-acceptance
My biggest wish for you is this…
…that as you shift your relationship to shame, you’ll thrive more every single day, and your long-held dreams will become your reality.
when people say 'do the work' well...this is it; THE WORK.
If you are looking for a workshop that will really redefine how you approach life and all the thoughts you have that hold you back, I truly can’t recommend this workshop enough. Marcela is an incredible facilitator and the practices and tools you will gain are so simple yet profoundly deep. It is a movement based practice, which for me really resonated. After a couple of years ‘talking’ things through with friends and professionals alike, getting more in my body was the tipping point for me to really take all this theory and start embodying it in practice. Don’t mistake it for dancing though, although it is huge fun, it is also very confronting and when people say ‘do the work’ well…this is it; THE WORK.
She is a gifted and fierce woman who truly understands people and their bodies.
This workshop was beautifully held and amazingly powerful. I gained so much clarity in how I was holding fear and shame in my body and also easy to use tools and practices that I can use in my everyday life to release these emotions. This work is unlike anything I have come across and is very special indeed. If you get a chance to participate in a workshop with Marcela do not hesitate! Thankyou Marcela! #whattheshityo?!
The outcome totally exceeded my expectations!
I signed up for Marcelas ‘Shifting Shame’ workshop because I was stuck in a mess of relational stuff – and the outcome totally exceeded my expectations! It feels like the work we did with Marcela, the process she guided us through, shifted pretty much everything for me. Also, I can use her practices to continue dealing with issues on my own. I would jump at the chance to participate again!
Do I need to have a certain level of fitness or flexibility?
No. We do move in this workshop, however, you do not have to be a fluent, agile mover in order to shift shame in your body. You’ll learn to do this no matter your movement fluency.
Each exercise and movement technique is designed to wake up your body and deepen your awareness of how you hold shame in your body and how you can move it.
You start exactly where you are. You take breaks and rest as you need.
What is the workshop size?
The maximum participants in this workshop is 16. The nature of the subject is such that a smaller, more intimate group allows participants to freely express themselves and feel safe in the process.
What is the workshop schedule?
Saturday: 9:30am – 6:00pm (Lunch break 1:00 – 2:30 pm)
Sunday: 9:30am – 1:00pm
Several short breaks are scheduled throughout both days.
Lunch will be catered on Saturday.
What should I wear to the workshop?
As this is a movement workshop, it’s best to wear clothes that are comfortable. Yoga gear / active wear are great. The room temperature may vary as you move, so it’s best to layer yourself.
What should I bring to the workshop?
Bring a notepad, pen and water bottle. Snacks will be provided.
Is my registration/ticket transferrable?
Yes, as long as you contact via email to email@example.com at least 48 hours prior to the workshop. Please provide the name, email and contact number of the person you are transferring your ticket to. The new participant must contact me directly prior to the workshop. If for some reason, the ticket is not used, it is not refundable at this point.
What is the cancellation policy?
You may cancel any workshop up to 1 month prior to the event for a full refund less any credit card or PayPal processing fees.
Cancellations less then 1 month but more than 2 weeks prior to the workshop will receive a 50% refund less any credit card or PayPal processing fees.
Cancellations less than 2 weeks prior to the workshop date are non-refundable. You may transfer the ticket onto a friend 48 hours prior to the workshop by emailing firstname.lastname@example.org.