Embodying Boundaries
Embodying Boundaries

Embodying Boundaries

Los Angeles, CA

by Fierce Embodiment, Marcela Widrig

Date and Time
  • 27 Aug 2017 (8:30am - 4:30pm)
Location

Pieter
420 West Avenue 33
Unit #10
Los Angeles, CA 90031

Price
Regular: USD $145

Description

EMBODYING BOUNDARIES

As women we’re often told to be nice, to be polite, to say yes, to keep our voices down, to keep the peace, to manage the conflict, to be generous, to be helpful, to just get the job done!

We’ve been told that in order to be happy, successful, in a relationship, we must put our needs last and everyone else’s first.

We must compromise, sacrifice, give in … without complaint.

And even though things are different now … most of us still don’t know how to say NO. We don’t know how to set boundaries.

Saying no can sometimes feel like life or death in our bodies
We’re so conditioned to say yes that standing up for ourselves and saying no can feel like a dangerous risk. It triggers so many of our deepest fears and insecurities.

• Fear of hurting someone we love
• Fear of being rejected
• Fear of being misunderstood
• Fear of being abandoned
• Fear of losing a promotion or business we’ve worked so hard for
• Fear of being hated and humiliated
• Fear of being cut off or ostracized

Saying no to the little things is just as important as saying no to the big things
We often let little things slide because we don’t want to upset or inconvenience others. It’s easy for us to say yes to little things, even though a part of us wants to say no.

The problem is if you are conditioned to say yes, when deep down something inside of you is saying no, your own personal boundary gets blurred. You may not even feel when your boundaries have been crossed until it’s too late.

And then, when you’ve reached the point where you’ve had enough, an old traumatic response gets triggered.

We go into Fight, Flight or Freeze when our boundaries are crossed
Depending on our past and the size of the threat, when we’ve reached our limit, our default reactions can be a repetition of our history. You repeat the same pattern.

• You fight. You’ve felt unappreciated and undervalued for far too long and cannot let it go on anymore, so you come out swinging and confrontational in order to be heard and valued.

• You flee. The anger, hurt and pain have built up so much over time, that it’s just too much. You don’t believe your wishes/boundaries will ever be respected, so all that is left is to leave and never engage again.

• You freeze. You’ve let your boundaries be ignored for so long that the emotions evoked overwhelm you, so you numb them and yourself. You disconnect not only from those involved, but from your own wishes and self.

And this happens again and again.

From this reactive place, we blame, ourselves and others. We lose our energy and recreate our past, reliving our biggest fears and often leaving a massive wake of hurt and destruction.

The trick to saying no and setting boundaries
The earlier, the sooner, the quicker, the cleaner you say no, the stronger it is.

In my experience, it comes down to knowing when something doesn’t feel right in your body. Being sensitive/tuned in enough to recognize when your body is saying no, because your body says no much faster than your mind does. It knows when something is not ok or not right for you.

There is more than one way to say no!
If saying no and setting boundaries feels scary and difficult, I want you to know it doesn’t always have to be this this way. There is more than one way you can say no, and depending on the situation, your no can be …. strong, clean, fast, soft, openhearted, fierce, free, playful, honest, vulnerable … it can even be in mid-motion.

This one-day workshop is designed to reconnect you to your body so you can explore the many different ways you can say no.

How we’ll learn to embody boundaries
We’ll first look at what your default reaction is when someone crosses your boundary, and what to do about it.

We’ll also look at:

– Feeling the no in your body and expressing it, even in simple situations
– Setting boundaries with those you love
– Transforming anger into a clear and powerful no
– Using your past to discover your boundaries and wishes
– Embodying self-respect and standing your ground
– Feeling the freedom to say yes, after you’ve clearly set boundaries

My wish is that you leave this workshop feeling empowered and free to set your boundaries with clarity, strength, grace and ease.

Embodying Boundaries

Los Angeles, CA

by Fierce Embodiment, Marcela Widrig

Date and Time
  • 27 Aug 2017 (8:30am - 4:30pm)
Location

Pieter
420 West Avenue 33
Unit #10
Los Angeles, CA 90031

Price
Regular: USD $145

Faq

What is the workshop size?

The maximum participants in this workshop is 18. The nature of the subject is such that a smaller, more intimate group allows participants to freely express themselves and feel safe in the process.

What is the workshop schedule?

Sunday: 8:30am – 4:30pm (Lunch break 12:30 – 2:00 pm)
Several short breaks are scheduled throughout the day.

What should I wear to the workshop?

As this is a movement workshop, it’s best to wear clothes that are comfortable. Yoga gear / active wear are great. The room temperature may vary as you move, so it’s best to layer yourself.

What should I bring to the workshop?

Bring a notepad, pen and water bottle. Snacks will be provided, but if you have special dietary restrictions, please bring your own, as well.

Is my registration/ticket transferrable?

Yes, as long as you contact via email to  move@fierceembodiment.com at least 48 hours prior to the workshop. Please provide the name, email and contact number of the person you are transferring your ticket to. The new participant must contact me directly prior to the workshop. If for some reason, the ticket is not used, it is not refundable at this point.

What is the cancellation policy?

You may cancel any workshop up to 1 month prior to the event for a full refund less any credit card or PayPal processing fees.

Cancellations less then 1 month but more than 2 weeks prior to the workshop will receive a 50% refund less any credit card or PayPal processing fees.

Cancellations less than 2 weeks prior to the workshop date are non-refundable. You may transfer the ticket onto a friend 48 hours prior to the workshop by emailing move@fierceembodiment.com.